A - Anal sex.
Abstinence - Refraining from all sexual activity
Abstinence - Refraining from all sexual activity
69 - Simultaneous fellatio and cunnilingus.
AC/DC - Bisexual.
Active - The aggressive sexual partner
Anal /Anal intercourse - Using the rectum for Sexual Intercourse
Around the world - Kissing the entire body before sex
Asexual - Absence of sexual feeling
Auto-eroticism - Masturbation
AW0 - Anal without a condom.
Back scuttle - Perform anal intercourse
Bag - The scrotum
Back yard - The buttocks
Balanitis - An inflammation of the glands and foreskin of the penis that can be caused by infections (including sexually transmitted infections) irritations, drugs, or other factors.
Ball - A wild sex activity
Balls - The testicles
Banana - The penis
Bare-assed - Nude
Bareback - Sex Without a condom
BBBF - Bareback butt fuck
BBBJ - Bareback blow job
BBF - Bareback fuck
BBW - Big beautiful woman
BDSM - In the beginning it was called sadomasochism(sm, s/m or s&m.) People involved in sadomasochism were described as bad, sick and pervert. Since some people did not want to be called or described that way, terms like dominance and submission (d&s, ds or d/s), love bondage and bondage and discipline (b&d) were invented to be different from sadomasochists. In the 90's during the internet revolution all kinky people were establishing arguments to label their kinks. After months of arguments the term bdsm was born. Most of the kinky people were happy after the term was issued. BDSM combines bondage and discipline (bd), dominance and submission (ds) and sadomasochism (sm.)
BJ Blow job - A strange term for fellatio
Beat off - Masturbation
Beefcake - Male possessing sex appeal
Bi-sexual - Engaging in sexual activities with members of both sexes
Bisexual/Bi - A person who has sexual and emotional relationships with both women and men, though not necessarily at the same time.
Bitch - A loose woman or feminine male
Bladder - The organ that collects and stores urine produced by the kidney. The bladder is emptied through the urethra.
Blind - An uncircumcised penis
Blow job - The act of oral intercourse
Blue balls - Severe need to experience sexual orgasm. The genital aching that may occur when men do not have an ejaculation following sexual stimulation. Women may experience similar aches if they do not reach orgasm, but because of sexist influences in development of our language about sex, there is no common expression to describe a woman's symptoms.
Body Image - One's attitudes and feelings about one's own body and appearance.
Bondage - When restraints are placed on the body in any practice to avoid any type of movement
Buns - The buttocks
Butch - A lesbian who prefers traditionally masculine dress, style, expression, or identity.
BV (Bacterial Vaginosis) - An inflammation of the vagina (vaginitis) that is caused by a change in the balance of vaginal bacteria.
CD - Cross dresser, cross-dressing.
Celibacy - Not having sex play.
Cervix - The narrow lower part of the uterus (womb), with an opening connecting the uterus to the vagina.
Chancroid - A sexually transmitted bacterium that causes open genital sores.
Change your luck - To engage in a gay sex for the first time
Chaste - To engage in ordinary sexual activities
Chastity Belts - A variety of devices designed to prevent women, men, or children from having sex. Used from medieval to modern times, these devices were also supposed to preserve morality. Some were meant to ensure fidelity in women in the absence of their husbands. Others were designed to prevent masturbation and nocturnal emissions in men and boys.
Cheat - To be unfaithful to one's sex partner
Cherry - One who is still a virgin,
CIM - Come in mouth
Circumcision - Surgical removal of the foreskin
Chlamydia - A common sexually transmitted organism that can cause sterility in women and men.
Clap - Gonorrhoea or other venereal disease (std)
Climacteric - The time of change that leads to menopause. The physiological midlife changes for women and men
Climax - To achieve the high point of sex activity
COF - Cum On Face.
Cohabitation - Living together in a sexual relationship.
Coitus - Sexual intercourse
Coitus in ano - Anal intercourse
Coitus interruptus - Withdrawal of the penis prior to ejaculation
Cold - Unresponsive to sexual relations
Condom - A sheath of thin rubber, plastic, or animal tissue that is worn on the penis during sexual intercourse. It is an over-the-counter, reversible barrier method of birth control, and it also provides protection against the most serious sexually transmitted infections.
Clit - The clitoris
Cowgirl - A position for sexual intercourse - the man on his back, the woman sitting on top.
CWM - CyberWhoreMonger. A punter who uses the Internet in connection with his paid-sex activities. This is mainly an American term, and contrasts with CyberCourtesan.
Dirt - Sex slave members who's checks bounce
Discipline - The other part of Bondage (B&D) that could also mean punishment or a structured training of a submissive.
Doggie style - A position for sexual intercourse - the woman on her knees, the man entering from behind.
Dominance - Dominance and submission, D/S, D&S Used for erotic enhancement, one partner uses consensual empowerment for the other partner. In SM, dominance and submission are the psychological and emotional underpinnings.
Dominant, Dom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix - The person that in a consensual exchange of power is in charge. If the person is a male is called dominant or Dom; if is a female is called a Domme, Domina or Dominatrix
Don Juanism - The desire by a man to have sex very frequently with many different partners.
DP - Double penetration, one penis in the vagina, another in the anus
Drag queen - Male who dresses in female clothing
Dry fuck - Moving against one another, clothed to simulate intercourse
Dyad - A sexual love relationship consisting of two primary partners
Dyke - A lesbian
Erectile Dysfunction - The inability to become erect or maintain an erection with a partner.
Erection - The sexual aroused state cause by a rush of blood into the veins and capillaries of the penis, coupled with a valve action which prevents its release, and further aided by the contraction of certain surface muscles on the penis, all of which combine to keep it in a hard and extended configuration until the stimuli is taken away or ejaculation occurs
Erogenous Zone - Any area of the body very sensitive to sensual touch.
Erotic - That which is sexually arousing.
Erotica - Sexually arousing imagery that is not considered pornographic, obscene, or offensive to the average person.
Erotophilia - Appreciation of the erotic
Erotophobia - Fear and anxiety about the erotic.
Erotic restraint - When movement is restricted for erotic play. It is also referred to the devices used
Escort London - A person who sells companionship and may offer Sex
Estrogen - A hormone commonly made in a woman's ovaries. Estrogens major effects are seen during puberty, menstruation, and pregnancy
Faeces - Solid waste that leaves the body through the anus.
Fake Orgasm - The pretence of having reached climax in order to end sex play or please a partner.
Family jewels - The testicles
Fanny - Same as pussy, cunny, quim, etc. (This definition is provided for the benefit of Americans, who generally have a very strange idea of what a fanny is.)
Fellatio - To kiss, nibble, lick or cock-sucking
Female Circumcision - The practice of removing a girl's clitoral hood, clitoris, and/or the labia; often called female genital mutilation. This is practiced in some African, Near Eastern, and Southeast Asian cultures.
Female Impersonator (FI) - A male who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical feminine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people.
Feminine - The "gender role" assigned to "females".
Fetish - Excessive or irrational devotion to some activity, a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body which someone is interested in to an extreme degree of worship with excessive devotion
FR - Field report, a written report of an experience with a prostitute by a client
French - French sex. Another term for fellatio. TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE
French kissing - Deep kissing, tongue kissing.
FS- Sometimes means full sex, but sometimes means full service
FTM - female to male, as in cross-dressing or a transsexual
FWO - French without [a condom]. Same as OWO or BBBJ.
GFE - The prostitute provide a girlfriend type experience, ( treats you like her girlfriend, kissing, etc)
Hetrosexual - One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions primarily to members of the opposite sex.
HJ - Hand-job. Same as hr
Hobby - The "hobby" is punting
Hobbyist - Euphemism for a man who frequents prostitutes. A (habitual) punter
Homophobia - Literally, the fear of homosexuals and homosexuality, sometimes merely implied, but often taken to the point where biased statements are made or biased actions are taken against lesbians and gay men.
Homophobe - One who is afraid of or oppresses people because one (perceives them to) have sexual and romantic attractions to members of the same sex.
Homosexual - One who desires sex only with the same sex
Inclusive relationship - In intimate sexual love relationship in which all partners have agreed to form a synergistic group and in which each dyad is warm and trusting. The existing relationship may expand to include more people with mutual consent.
Identify/ied (as) - To think of oneself as having a particular sexual identity or gender identity. - [I "identify as" a bisexual. I am bi-"identified".] To emphasise that an identity term refers to one's internal reality, as opposed to what others think or observe of one, "self-identify" is sometimes used.
Identity - How one thinks of oneself. One's internal self, as opposed to what others observe or think about one.
Impotent - Unable to engage in sexual intercourse
Incall - Where the client visits the prostitute. Opposite of outcall.
Intersexual - A person biologically between female and male, sometimes with genital and/or reproductive body parts of both sexes. Replaces hermaphrodite. At one time meant homosexual
Label - How someone else sees or thinks of oneself or others.
Lace curtains - The foreskin of the penis
Latex - Material used to make fetish items like clothing
Lavender - Pertaining to the homosexual lifestyle
Lay - To perform sexual intercourse
Leather, Leather sex, Leather lifestyle - A synonym for SM used in fetish fashion and gear.
Lesbian - A female homosexual. A woman who has significant sexual and romantic attractions to members of the same sex, or who identifies as a member of the lesbian community. Bisexual women often do not feel included by this term.
Libido - Sexual appetite
Male Impersonator - A female who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical masculine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people.
Masochism - Where sexual gratification is achieved by pain
Masculine - A highly subjective concept of the essential qualities of a man.
Master - When the man takes control in the SM role play.
Massage parlour - Usually a brothel. This is illegal in the UK but is tolerated in many areas - although official toleration, as in Edinburgh, is rare.
Masturbation - Manual manipulation of genitals
Matinee - A sex session in the afternoon
MFS - Massage and full sex girl
Mish - Missionary position
Missionary position - Woman on her back, man on top facing her
Mistress - When the woman takes control in the SM role play.
MMF - A male-male-female threesome
MTF - Male to female, as in cross-dressing or a transsexual.
Multiple Orgasms - More than one orgasm occurring within the same sexual encounter.
Mutual masturbation - Where partners manipulate each other's genital
Nymphomania - The desire by a woman to have sex very frequently with many different partners.
"O" - Oral sex
Obscenity - Sexually arousing imagery that is considered socially offensive.
O-levels - Oral sex
Old dirt road - Using the anus for intercourse
One way - Will perform only one type of sexual activity
Oral intercourse - A sexual activity whereby the mouth of one per-is used in connection with the sexual organs of another person to produce sex gratification
Oral - Oral sex. Either fellatio or cunnilingus - usually the former in the context of punter talk.
Orgasm - The peak of sensation during sexual activity
Other - sex/gender The other sex or gender than the reference person's own. [She has another sex partner (than her own sex).] [Are you currently in a relationship with a member of the same sex (as yourself)?]
OTK - Over the knee (spanking)
Out [someone] - To disclose a second person's sexual identity to a third person, especially without the second person's permission. 2. To disclose one's own sexual identity, sometimes without choosing to do so.
Outcall - Where the prostitute visits the client's home or hotel. Opposite of incall
Outer course - Sex play that does not include inserting the penis in the vagina or anus.
OWO - Oral without [a condom]. Same as FWO or BBBJ.
Passive -The person receiving intercourse
Pearl diver - One who performs oral sex on the penis
Primary sex organs - Penis (male) or vagina (female.) (See "female", "male", "hermaphrodite", "neuter".)
PSE - Porn Star Experience
Punter - A prostitute's client
Pushover - Easily persuaded to engage in sex
PVC - Poly-vinyl-chloride Plastic used for fetish clothing or pipes used for bondage devices.
Rim/ rimming - When one person licks and kisses their partner's anus like oral sex on a female, except to the anus instead of the vagina
Ring On Pinky - Wearing a ring on the little finger of the left hand has for much of the twentieth century been a code for homosexuality
Russian - A tit fuck
Semen - The fluid produced during ejaculation of the male
Sex - On its own often means vaginal intercourse
Sex hormones - Substances produced by the testes, ovaries and adrenal glands in different quantities in females and males which promote bodily sexual characteristics. Certain hormones artificially taken by men can grow breasts. Other hormones taken by women can grow facial hair and lower the voice.
Sexual identity - How one perceives oneself as male, female, or in between. A biological female may identify as a male and vice versa.
Sexual love - The synergic fusing of love and sexuality into a single erotic emotion in an intimate relationship.
Sexual orientation - How a person chooses to have sex -- with the same or opposite sex, with both, with oneself, or not at all (asexual).
Sex reassignment surgery (SRS) - Surgery to change, within the limits of surgical possibility, a person's genitals to those of the other sex (and retain the possibility of sexual stimulation). In male-to-female conversion, the penis is converted to a vagina. In female-to-male conversion, the challenge has been to create a version of a penis
Sex Worker - One who is paid for providing sex or sexually arousing conditions, including prostitution, striptease, lap dancing, commercial phone sex, and erotic massage.
Significant Other - One's chosen romantic partner.
Sixty-nine - Genital oral intercourse performed on each other. simultaneously by two partners
Straight - A heterosexual
Straight sex - Vaginal intercourse
Stud - A male who is in great demand as a sex partner
Suck off - To perform oral intercourse on the penis
Sugar daddy - A man who keeps a younger person for sexual favours
Swallows - Means that she swallows your cum
Swinger - One who accepts free love doctrine
Swish - A male who behaves in a feminine manner
Vagina - Orifice of female sex organs
Vanilla sex - Any non kinky sex acts
Versatile - Bi-sexual